What does forbidding mean?
"Forbidding" is an adjective used to describe people, places, or things that appear intimidating, hostile, or unwelcoming — anything whose outward aspect discourages approach. A forbidding fortress, a forbidding stare, or a forbidding mountain range all share this quality of seeming to repel rather than attract. Importantly, the word does not imply that anything has actually been prohibited; it concerns appearance and atmosphere, not rules. A building may look forbidding while remaining entirely open to visitors, and a person may have a forbidding manner despite a warm character underneath. The word derives from the verb "forbid," which does mean to prohibit, giving the adjective a semantic echo of refusal and denial even in its purely visual sense. Writers frequently use it for dramatic effect in descriptions of gloomy architecture, harsh terrain, severe weather, and austere personalities, making it a staple of both fiction and travel writing.
Having an intimidating, unfriendly, or threatening appearance or manner; seeming difficult to approach or deal with.
"The prison's forbidding facade deterred even the most curious tourists."
Typically applied to appearances and atmospheres rather than actual prohibitions.
The act of prohibiting or commanding someone not to do something.
"Forbidding children from using screens entirely rarely works as well as setting limits."
This sense is simply the progressive form of the verb "forbid" rather than a distinct lexical entry.
"Forbidding" doesn't mean anything is actually forbidden — it's the word for things that simply scare you off by their look alone.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
Etymology of forbidding
"Forbidding" derives from the verb "forbid," which comes from Old English "forbēodan," formed from the prefix "for-" combined with "bēodan," meaning to command or proclaim. The root verb traces back through Germanic languages, sharing ancestry with words like "bid" and German "bieten." The adjective sense — describing an intimidating appearance — developed later, becoming established by around the early seventeenth century.
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How forbidding is actually used
Primarily used as an adjective describing appearance or demeanor rather than explicit prohibition — it conveys implied deterrent rather than formal ban. Common in descriptive writing about buildings, landscapes, weather, and people's expressions. The tone is usually neutral to negative in connotation.
Easily confused with forbidding
"Forbidden" means explicitly banned or prohibited by authority, while "forbidding" describes something that merely looks or feels intimidating.