What does grudging mean?
Grudging means unwilling or reluctant to give, admit, concede, or approve something, typically with resentment or a sense of reluctance. A person may offer grudging respect, make a grudging concession, or accept a decision with grudging approval. The word usually conveys that the positive feeling or agreement is real but incomplete, qualified, or unwillingly given. It is stronger and more emotional than merely reluctant: reluctant can describe an absence of enthusiasm, while grudging often implies that someone resents what they are acknowledging, permitting, or praising. Grudging is common in formal reporting, literature, debate, and everyday conversation. It can characterize an attitude or the manner in which something is granted, though grudgingly is the normal adverb when the bare word would otherwise sound incomplete. Compared with begrudging, grudging is the more usual form in expressions such as grudging approval and grudging respect. The word is useful when a writer wants to convey not simply hesitation, but a specific blend of reluctance, resentment, and limited goodwill.
adjectiveUnwilling or reluctant to give, admit, concede, or approve something, especially in a resentful or halfhearted way.
- Reluctant and resentful willingness to give, admit, concede, or approve something; unwilling or halfhearted in giving or acknowledging something.
"After years of dispute, she gave the proposal her grudging approval."
"After years of dispute, she gave the proposal her grudging approval."
"His competitors acknowledged the team's achievement with grudging respect."
A grudging approval is approval with the thermostat turned low: granted, but without warmth.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
Where does grudging come from?
Grudging was formed in the late 16th century by adding the suffix -ing to grudge. Grudge came through Middle English grudge, meaning envy or ill will, an alteration of Old French grugier, meaning to be jealous; the ultimate origin of that Old French word is uncertain. Grudge, begrudge, and grudger are related English forms from the same root, while grudging became the adjective for reluctant, resentful willingness.
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How grudging is actually used
Used in formal and informal English, this word usually suggests a stronger, more emotional reluctance than merely reluctant. When used adverbially, grudgingly is normally preferred.
Easily confused with grudging
Grudging means reluctant and often resentful, whereas grading means assigning or assessing grades.