What does hurtful mean?
Hurtful is an adjective meaning likely to cause hurt, especially emotional hurt, offense, or distress. It is often applied to words, remarks, actions, and choices that deliberately wound someone's feelings, as in 'a hurtful comment,' while it can also refer more generally to something harmful or damaging. The word carries a strong negative connotation and suggests that the result is not accidental or trivial. In conversation, 'hurtful' may imply cruelty or insensitivity, whereas 'harmful' is often more neutral and broader in scope. A hurtful remark is remembered because it affects a person's sense of worth or security, making the adjective especially useful when discussing speech, relationships, public behavior, and social consequences. It is not limited to emotional harm, however, and can describe any act that causes injury or serious damage.
adjectiveCausing or intended to cause hurt, especially emotional hurt. It can also describe something harmful or damaging.
- Causing or intended to cause emotional hurt or offense.
- Causing harm, damage, or injury.
"His cruel accusation was hurtful, and it left her feeling humiliated."
"The film contained several hurtful remarks about the character's appearance."
"The decision to close the local hospital was deeply hurtful to residents."
A single hurtful sentence can leave a mark that no apology easily removes.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
Where does hurtful come from?
The adjective is formed in English from the word 'hurt' and the suffix '-ful,' meaning 'full of' or 'having the quality of.' The English verb 'hurt' comes through Old French hurter, from a Germanic origin associated with physical injury. In 'hurtful,' the suffix has developed the meaning 'causing' or 'likely to cause,' as in 'helpful' or 'harmful.'
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How hurtful is actually used
The word is commonly used for deliberate attacks on someone's feelings, but it can also describe broader harm. It may sound more forceful or confrontational than 'unkind,' depending on the context.
Easily confused with hurtful
Hurtful usually emphasizes causing emotional or psychological pain, whereas harmful is broader and often refers to physical, legal, or practical damage.
Painful can describe physical pain or any unpleasant experience, while hurtful more specifically implies causing hurt to someone or offending someone.