What does patronise mean?
Patronise is a chiefly British verb meaning to treat someone with condescending superiority, as though they are less knowledgeable, capable, or important than the speaker. It commonly describes speech, behaviour, or attitudes that appear friendly on the surface but subtly belittle another person: a patronising remark, tone, or habit. The word often carries a negative connotation, although its force depends on context and on whether the behaviour is intentional. Patronise also has an older, less common sense meaning to act as a patron of or give support to an artist, institution, or enterprise. The dominant sense is especially useful when describing a mismatch between apparent courtesy and an underlying assumption of superiority. British speakers generally use the spelling "patronise," while American English uses "patronize."
verbTo treat someone with condescending superiority, as though they are less important, intelligent, or capable than one is. In an older and less common sense, it means to act as a patron of or give support to an artist, institution, or enterprise.
- To treat someone with patronizing condescension, especially by assuming that they know less or matter less than the speaker.
- To act as a patron of, encourage, or provide support for an artist, institution, or enterprise.
"I dislike the way the guide patronises visitors by explaining even the most obvious details."
"The professor's habit of patronising students made them reluctant to ask questions."
"Several local businesses patronise the theatre by sponsoring its annual programme."
Patronise captures a subtle social warning: support can turn into talking down to someone.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
Where does patronise come from?
Patronise comes through French from patron, a word derived from Latin patronus, meaning a protector or patron and ultimately from pater, "father." The original sense was connected with protection, support, and the relationship between a patron and a client or artist. Over time, the verb developed the modern sense of speaking or acting in a superior, condescending manner.
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How patronise is actually used
In contemporary British English, the condescending sense is dominant, and the word generally carries a negative or disapproving connotation. The older sense of giving patronage or support is still valid but much less frequent. US English normally spells the word "patronize."