What does unfeeling mean?
Unfeeling describes a person, attitude, or action that lacks sympathy, compassion, or concern for others. In contemporary English, it usually conveys moral disapproval: an unfeeling person appears indifferent to suffering, while an unfeeling response seems callous or excessively cold. The word can also describe emotional numbness or, in older usage, a lack of physical sensation. It is related in meaning to “insensitive,” “callous,” and “heartless,” although it often implies a sharper accusation than those more neutral alternatives. “Unfeeling” comes from the prefix “un-” and the word “feeling,” meaning that it originally conveyed an absence of feeling before becoming strongly associated with emotional coldness. The term is useful when distinguishing ordinary insensitivity from a conspicuous failure to respond with care or empathy, though “empathetic” or “compassionate” provides its clearest direct contrast.
adjectiveLacking sympathy or compassion; callous or indifferent to the feelings of others.
- Lacking sympathy, compassion, or concern for others.
- In older or less common usage, lacking physical sensation or being insensible to pain.
"His unfeeling dismissal of her concern deepened the sense of betrayal."
"The politician's unfeeling response to the families drew fierce criticism."
"His hands were numb and unfeeling after hours in the freezing wind."
Once a neutral description of being emotionally unresponsive, “unfeeling” has become a sharp moral judgment: we call people unfeeling when they seem to have lost the capacity to care.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
Where does unfeeling come from?
Unfeeling was formed in early modern English from the prefix “un-” and “feeling.” Its earliest uses could refer literally to a lack of feeling, including emotional or physical insensitivity. Over time, the emotional sense became dominant, especially the idea of being indifferent to other people's feelings. It belongs to a family that includes “feel,” “feeling,” and the cognate adjective “unfelt.”
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How unfeeling is actually used
In modern usage, the word is mainly negative and often implies deliberate emotional coldness or indifference. It may describe a person, an attitude, a response, or an action, and it generally carries a stronger moral judgment than “insensitive.” The older physical sense is now uncommon.
Easily confused with unfeeling
Unfailing means reliable or consistent, whereas unfeeling describes a lack of sympathy or emotional responsiveness.