What does dote mean?
To dote is to love or admire someone with extravagant, sometimes uncritical devotion. The verb nearly always takes the preposition "on" or "upon," as in a parent who dotes on a child or a collector who dotes on rare stamps, and it typically suggests indulgence that borders on excess — the doting person showers attention, praise, or gifts far beyond ordinary affection. The word carries a warmly indulgent connotation, though it can imply a loss of judgment: a doting grandparent may spoil a child, for instance. "Dote" derives from Middle English and is related to words such as "dotage" and "dotard," which refer to mental decline — a reminder that the term originally implied a kind of foolishness. Today that older sense has largely faded, and "dote" survives chiefly as a vivid way to describe besotted, wholehearted devotion.
To show excessive, uncritical fondness or love for someone or something, typically followed by 'on' or 'upon'.
"She doted on her youngest grandson, letting him stay up past bedtime whenever he visited."
Rarely used without a following preposition; 'dote on' is by far the most common construction.
(Archaic) To be weak-minded, foolish, or senile; to have one's faculties impaired by age.
"In Shakespeare's day, to dote could mean simply to slip into the foolishness of old age."
This sense is now obsolete except in historical contexts and in the derivatives 'dotage' and 'dotard'.
"Dote" didn't always mean loving — it originally meant going soft in the head, which is why an overly devoted old man was once called a "dotard."
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Etymology of dote
The verb "dote" comes from Middle English "doten," first attested in the medieval period, and is generally traced to a Germanic root associated with being silly, sluggish, or feeble-minded; it is related to similar verbs in Low German and Dutch meaning "to doze." Its original sense was "to be foolish or weak-minded," which survives in "dotage" (mental decline in old age) and "dotard" (an elderly person in decline). By the early modern period, the meaning had shifted toward excessive, almost irrational fondness — a love so strong it resembles folly — which remains the dominant sense today.
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How dote is actually used
Almost always used transitively via the prepositions 'on' or 'upon' ('dote on someone'); the verb rarely appears without them. The word often carries a hint of excess or indulgence — the affection described is warm but slightly over the top. The older sense relating to mental decline survives mainly in the derivative 'dotard' and the noun 'dotage'.
Easily confused with dote
A dot is a small round mark or point, whereas dote is a verb meaning to love excessively.