What does groveling mean?
Groveling describes behavior that is far more humble and deferential than ordinary respect or apology. Its figurative sense is the dominant modern use: someone who is groveling before a person in authority is seeking favor, forgiveness, or advantage through exaggerated submission. The expression is generally negative and often suggests shame, opportunism, or a loss of dignity, although it can also convey intense desperation. Its older literal sense refers to lying face down, crawling, or kneeling as a sign of homage or worship. The word is especially vivid because it combines a physical image of abasement with the social image of fawning before another person. In British usage, "grovelling" is the usual spelling, while American usage generally favors "groveling."
Excessively humble, servile, or flattering, especially in seeking favor or forgiveness.
"His groveling apology did little to repair the damage."
Usually disapproving or contemptuous in modern usage.
The present participle of grovel, meaning crawling or lying face down in submission or behaving with excessive servility.
"She spent the evening groveling for the attention of the film director."
The figurative use often implies abject or humiliating deference.
Groveling turns an image of lying flat on the ground into a sharp criticism of humiliating eagerness to please.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
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How groveling is actually used
The figurative use is common and usually disapproving or mocking, suggesting behavior that is excessively servile, flattering, or humiliating. In British English, the double-l spelling "grovelling" is standard; American English more often uses "groveling."
Easily confused with groveling
Groveling describes excessively humble or servile behavior, whereas grieving refers to mourning or deep sorrow.