What does stroking mean?
Stroking is the present participle of the verb stroke. Its most familiar meaning is the gentle, repeated movement of a hand or fingers over a person, animal, or object, often expressing affection, tenderness, or pleasure. The word also has a musical sense: a violinist or other string player is said to be stroking the strings when moving the bow across them. Figuratively, stroking someone means praising or encouraging them, usually with the implication that the encouragement may influence their behavior. This use can be genuinely supportive, but it can also suggest flattery or manipulation, as in “stroking someone's ego.” Stroking is therefore a flexible word that moves easily between physical description, artistic technique, and social or political commentary. It is particularly useful when describing an action that is both gentle and intentional.
verb (present participle and gerund)To move the hand or fingers repeatedly and gently over a person, animal, or surface, often as a sign of affection or pleasure. It can also mean encouraging or praising someone to prompt further action, or drawing a bow across the strings of a musical instrument.
- Moving the hand or fingers repeatedly and gently over a person, animal, or surface.
- Drawing a bow across the strings of a stringed instrument.
- Praising or encouraging someone in order to prompt further action.
"She sat on the floor, gently stroking the cat as it slept beside her."
"He kept stroking the dog's ears while it wagged its tail."
"The violinist continued stroking the strings as the music grew softer."
"The politician spent the interview stroking his supporters and avoiding difficult questions."
From affectionate petting to strategic flattery, stroking can mean either giving gentle attention or giving someone exactly the encouragement they want to hear.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
Where does stroking come from?
Stroking is the present-participle form of stroke. Stroke descends from Old English forms associated with rubbing, moving the hand over, or making a line, and belongs to a Germanic word family that also produced English forms related to strike, streak, and strake. The modern -ing form combines the inherited verb with the productive English present-participle ending.
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How stroking is actually used
The literal sense is neutral and commonly suggests affection, comfort, or careful tactile movement. The figurative sense can be complimentary, but it may also imply manipulation, flattery, or an attempt to encourage someone for personal advantage.
Easily confused with stroking
Stroking means rubbing or gently moving the hand over something, while stoking means feeding or fueling a fire, or intensifying an activity or feeling.