What does wingman mean?
A wingman is a supportive companion who helps another person, typically by accompanying them and providing encouragement, practical help, or assistance in a social or romantic situation. The expression also has a more literal aviation and military meaning: a wingman was a pilot flying alongside another aircraft, with a protective or supporting role. Today, the figurative sense is the most familiar, especially in descriptions of a friend helping someone meet a potential partner, though the word can more broadly refer to a trusted ally or accomplice in a venture. “Wingman” is informal in most contemporary usage and often implies loyalty, active support, and familiarity with the other person’s aim. Its imagery is vivid: the companion stays beside the main person and assists without taking over. The word therefore captures not merely company, but coordinated support from someone prepared to help the central figure succeed.
A person who provides support or assistance to another, especially as a friend helping someone in a social or romantic situation; an aviation pilot who flies alongside and supports another aircraft.
"He was her wingman throughout the difficult conversation with their manager."
The figurative sense is informal and common in both British and American English; the aviation sense is literal and technical.
To serve as a supportive companion or ally to someone, especially by accompanying and assisting them in a social or romantic situation.
"Her friends agreed to wingman for her at the event."
This verbal use is less common and generally informal.
The plural is irregular, changing the final -man to -men.
"The wingmen arrived early to help set up the surprise party."
A wingman began as the aircraft flying beside another, providing support in the sky, then became the friend who helps you approach someone you like.
Reviewed by Deb Chak, Editor. AI-assisted content curated by RJS Tech Solutions LLP.
Etymology of wingman
The word was formed in English from wing and man. It arose in aviation and military usage for a pilot flying alongside and assisting another aircraft. Its figurative social meaning developed later, in the 1960s, when the word came to denote a friend who helped another person in social or romantic situations.
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How wingman is actually used
The figurative meaning is informal and particularly common in American and British speech. It is usually positive, implying loyal and active assistance, but the word can also suggest that one person is facilitating another's romantic intentions.